I love the man David. He asked to tell it not in Gath!
You see, this man David had an archenemy in the person of King Saul – he was a man anointed by God to shepherd the flock of Israel. He however fell out of favour with Him due to his disobedient and unrepentant attitude.
Knowing David to be the one chosen in his stead by God, as king over Israel, Saul began a life-haunting campaign against David. On several occasions, David had to run from pillar to post, valleys to mountains in an attempt to avert Saul’s unmerited wrath against him. Interestingly, each time Saul fell into his trap , he restrained his men from killing or hurting him. Don’t you know he his God’s anointed, he’ll tell them. Saul was like that proverbial stray dog; he never heeded the calls of restraint and sound counsels. Anyway, while still keeping deadly tabs on David, he met his waterloo at the war with the Philistines – there the man died.
What else could have been pleasant news for David? What else should have given him a cause to rejoice? Everyone in Israel knew of Saul’s blood lust towards David (who had already earned the majority’s goodwill) hence, in their thinking, the news of his death should bring relief and joy to the persecuted David.
Relying on this notion, this smart Amalekite, who had been at the scene of the battle and witnessed Saul’s death, took it on himself to take the good tidings to David. He even reconstructed the story of how Saul died. He (Saul) pleaded with me to kill him and I did, he lied. I’m sure Sir David will compensate me richly for taking out his enemy, he must have thought.
David’s reaction to the news stuns me. I was here thinking oh boy, David’s banger don ripe be that o. Instead, he fasted, wept and mourned the loss of a man who sought to kill him. How dare you raise your hand against the Lord’s anointed ? he questions the Amalekite in fury. He got an instant death for his service. What more, David wrote a lamentation for Saul. He described Saul, his sons and other fallen men as the mighty. He declared:
- Tell not the story of their defeat in Gath!
- Publish it not in the streets of Askelon;
- Lest the daughters of the Philistines rejoice;
- Lest the daughters of the uncircumcised triumph.
In present day reality, the instruction would have read: circulate not/ make not a fuss of it on social media (especially Facebook and WhatsApp).
I feel sad when I see so-called Christians make a mockery of a man of God who are caught in a fault, especially when such a man is not of their denomination or doctrinal persuasion. I knew/said it! they’ll declare triumphantly. I knew the man was up to no good. I’m even surprised it took this long for him to be exposed. The rate at which folks sponsor such news bemuses even the unbeliever.
Bros, do me a favour: if you are in the company of this self-righteous mockers, hang your head in shame and learn from David. He wasn’t even a new-creation believer neither did he have the luxury of God’s word which you have today. Yet, he did wisely.
Perhaps we should come to acknowledge that men of God (and by extension, men in the position of spiritual leadership) are flesh and blood like everyone else with like feelings and affections. Yes, they are meant to be spiritually mature but not infallible. They are also liable to mistakes and inadequacies. Their shortcomings nevertheless, they are the anointed of God and should be so reverenced.
The writer of Hebrews expresses the mind of most ministers when he admonishes believers to:
Keep praying for us, for we are convinced that we have a good (clear) conscience, that we want to walk uprightly and live a noble life, acting honourably and in complete honesty in all things. Heb13:8 [Amp]
Simply put, he starts by saying: folks, we need your prayers. Yes ,we are sure we have a good conscience (as believers). However, through your prayers (which is the supply of the Spirit); we’ll continue to act honourably and in complete honesty in all things.
The apostle Paul, a great man of faith, never at any point thought he was self-sufficient. Throughout his epistles, he kept imploring brethren, pray for us!
Apostle Peter who was the lead apostle and by extension the overseer of the early church, made quite a number of mistakes (see Acts 5:1-10, Gal 2:11-14…). This didn’t however disqualify him; rather, he was still used mightily by God. Paul didn’t find Mark worthy enough to journey with him initially (Acts 15:38). He however, testified of him as profitable for the ministry later on (2Tim4:11). The man in 1Cor5:1 did despicably and was duly “punished” for it. Paul however counselled that he be forgiven and comforted in 2Cor2:5-8.
You are at best a selfish Christian if you don’t pray for your spiritual leaders. You are however disgusting if all you do, when they sometimes go wrong, is mock them make a business out of it. When you go about your public show of shame on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and WhatsApp, you give cause for the daughters of the Philistines (unbelievers) to rejoice and mock the gospel.
When you find a man overtaken in a fault, the instruction for you (if you are indeed spiritually mature) is to restore such a one – not celebrate his supposedly downfall (Gal6:1). In case you think the men God testified about were infallible and never had a moment of misconduct, take a quick journey into Hebrews 11 – you will be shocked.
Stop being a busybody. Get busy with the gospel. Stand in the gap for your spiritual leaders. Be genuinely concerned about the misconduct of a fellow believer and do your best to restore him.
If your blood were pristine, God wouldn’t have needed to send his son. Perhaps you could have been the sacrifice for our sins.
If God wouldn’t write of a man or strike out his name for a misconduct, who are you to?